<section><h2><strong><span style="font-size:36px;">DISCOVER YOUR LOVE LANGUAGES</span></strong></h2><p><h4><span style="font-size:18px;">Based on the work by Dr. Gary Chapman, choose the following statement that best describes you...</span></h4></p></section><section><h2><h1><strong><span style="font-size:36px;">WORDS OF AFFIRMATION</span></strong></h1></h2><p><h2></h2><br /><p><span style="font-size:18px;">P</span><span style="font-size:18px;">eople whose love language is words of affirmation want to hear they are appreciated and loved more than anything. It can be as simple as saying “I love you” or “I appreciate you” randomly throughout the day instead of just before bed or when you go to work, or a more grand gesture like leaving notes throughout your home for them.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:18px;"> </span></p><h3><span style="font-size:18px;">For Significant Other</span></h3><ul><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Leave them a sticky note on the bathroom mirror saying “I love you”</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Compliment a project they’ve recently finished</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Send them a letter in the mail telling them you appreciate them</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Share something nice they did on Facebook or Instagram</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Give them a phone call just to say how much you love them<br /></span></li></ul><h3><span style="font-size:18px;">For Kids</span></h3><ul><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Write them a nice note and pack it with their lunch</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Give them a bracelet with that says “I love you” to wear</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Hang their art on the fridge and tell them how much you love it</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Tell them you appreciate them when they do their chores</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Share five reasons why you love them<br /></span></li></ul><h3><span style="font-size:18px;">For Yourself</span></h3><ul><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Read through your favorite quotes</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Write down what you like about yourself</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Repeat self love affirmations to yourself in the mirror</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Save notes people have written you and read them later</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Call a friend and talk about what you love about one another</span><br /><span style="font-size:18px;"></span></li></ul><p><span style="font-size:10px;">Source: www.ftd.com</span></p></p></section><section><h3><h2>QUALITY TIME</h2></h3><p><p><span style="font-size:18px;"> </span></p><p><span style="font-size:18px;"></span><span style="font-size:18px;">People whose love language is quality time want to spend undivided attention with those they love. This means leaving your cell phone behind and devoting special time to your loved one. Whether it’s just having a conversation over coffee or watching their favorite movie with them, just spending time with that person will let them know that you care.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:18px;"> </span></p><h3><span style="font-size:18px;">For Significant Other</span></h3><ul><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Try out a new restaurant or cook together</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Go on a walk together after dinner</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Plan a romantic picnic<a href="https://www.ftd.com/blog/celebrate/romantic-picnic-ideas"></a>—without phones</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Buy tickets for a movie or play they’ve been wanting to see</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Schedule a weekly date night<br /></span></li></ul><h3><span style="font-size:18px;">For Kids</span></h3><ul><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Play board games or video games with them</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Take them on a lunch date without any other siblings</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Bake cookies or something else sweet together</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Play catch in the yard together</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Take a road trip or overnight trip together<br /></span></li></ul><h3><span style="font-size:18px;">For Yourself</span></h3><ul><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Read a book in bed</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Take a bath with a fizzy bath bomb</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Wander around a new neighborhood</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Find a solo hobby you enjoy</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Journal your thoughts<br /><br /></span></li></ul><p><span style="font-size:10px;">Source: www.ftd.com</span></p></p></section><section><h3><h2><strong>RECEIVING GIFTS</strong></h2></h3><p><p><span style="font-size:18px;"> </span></p><p><span style="font-size:18px;"></span><span style="font-size:18px;">People who want to receive gifts as a sign of love are not materialistic. They want thoughtful gifts that indicate their loved ones have been listening to them and thinking of them throughout the day. This can be done by sending them flowers in the middle of the week or by buying them a certificate to the spa. But what matters most is the thought behind the gift!</span></p><p><span style="font-size:18px;"> </span></p><h3><span style="font-size:18px;">For Significant Other</span></h3><ul><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Bring them their favorite flowers, just because</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Buy them something they’ve been wanting for awhile</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Send them a surprise package at work</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Make them a mix CD and explain why you chose each song for them</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Sign them up for a class they’ve been wanting to take<br /></span></li></ul><h3><span style="font-size:18px;">For Kids</span></h3><ul><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Buy them a new outfit and lay it out on their bed</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Let them pick out one new toy at the store</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Surprise them with a present on an obscure holiday</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Pack a small gift in their backpack</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Get them their favorite treat at the grocery store<br /></span></li></ul><h3><span style="font-size:18px;">For Yourself</span></h3><ul><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Buy yourself your favorite dessert</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Order something off your wishlist</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Have an extra glass of wine</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Create a photo album of your favorite memories</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Make DIY decor for your home<br /><br /></span></li></ul><p><span style="font-size:10px;">Source: www.ftd.com</span></p></p></section><section><h3><h2><strong>ACTS OF SERVICE</strong></h2></h3><p><p><span style="font-size:18px;"> </span></p><p><span style="font-size:18px;"></span><span style="font-size:18px;">People whose love language is acts of service prefer that people show their love and appreciation with chores and other odd-jobs. It goes beyond just doing chores or what you’re asked to do, but picking up extra work around the house or running errands they’ve been dreading to make their day easier.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:18px;"> </span></p><h3><span style="font-size:18px;">For Significant Other</span></h3><ul><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Make them breakfast in bed</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Take the dog for a walk</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Do the grocery shopping</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Fold and put away their laundry</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Give them an hour of uninterrupted TV time</span><br /><span style="font-size:18px;"></span></li></ul><h3><span style="font-size:18px;">For Kids</span></h3><ul><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Do a chore they’ve been dreading</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Help them clean their room</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Let them choose the movie the family watches</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Make their bed for them when they forget</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Cook them their favorite meal<br /></span></li></ul><h3><span style="font-size:18px;">For Yourself</span></h3><ul><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Order takeout food so you don’t have to worry about cooking</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Treat yourself to a cleaning service</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Declutter your home and donate unused items to a charity</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Start using a laundry service to pick up your dry-cleaning</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Invest in a robotic vacuum<br /><br /></span></li></ul><p><span style="font-size:10px;">Source: www.ftd.com</span></p></p></section><section><h3><h2><strong>PHYSICAL TOUCH</strong></h2></h3><p><p><span style="font-size:18px;"> </span></p><p><span style="font-size:18px;"></span><span style="font-size:18px;">The physical touch love language isn’t just reserved for couples or significant others. People who “speak” this love language simple enjoy human contact, whether it’s with a hug after a long day or just sitting near someone.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:18px;"> </span></p><h3><span style="font-size:18px;">For Significant Other</span></h3><ul><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Give them a backscratch or a massage—before they ask for one</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Put your arm around them or hold their hand while you’re out in public</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Give them a hug or a kiss, just because</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Schedule cuddling or snuggling time as a date</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Take them out for a night of dancing<br /></span></li></ul><h3><span style="font-size:18px;">For Kids</span></h3><ul><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Let them sit on your lap while you read to them</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Style their hair for them or help them get dressed</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Give them a surprise piggyback ride around the house</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Hold their hand while shopping together</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Cuddle them to help them fall asleep<br /></span></li></ul><h3><span style="font-size:18px;">For Yourself</span></h3><ul><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Schedule a manicure or pedicure for yourself</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Snuggle with pets</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Spend five minutes stretching after you wake up</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Get a haircut and enjoy the complimentary head-massage</span></li><li><span style="font-size:18px;">Sleep with a weighted blanket<br /><br /></span></li></ul><p><span style="font-size:10px;">Source: www.ftd.com</span></p></p></section><section><h2><h2>A. I like to receive notes of affirmation.<br />B. I like to be hugged.</h2></h2></section><section><h3><h2>A. I like to spend one-on-one time with others.<br />B. I feel loved when I'm given practical help.</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>A. I like it when someone gives me gifts.<br />B. I like taking long walks with others.</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>A. I feel loved when you do things to help me.<br />B. I feel loved when you hug or touch me.</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>A. Hold me in your arms.<br />B. Surprise me with a gift.</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>A. I like to go places with you.<br />B. I like to hold hands with you.</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>A. I feel loved when you acknowledge me.<br />B. Visible symbols of love (gifts) are very important to me.</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>A. Sit close to me.<br />B. Tell me that I'm attractive.</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>A. I like to spend time with you.<br />B. I like to receive little gifts from you.</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>A. I know you love me when you help me.<br />B. Your words of acceptance are important to me.</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>A. I like to be together when we do things.<br />B. I like the kind words you say to me.</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>A. I feel whole when we hug.<br />B. What you do affects me more than what you say.</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>A. I value your praise and try to avoid your criticism.<br />B. Several inexpensive gifts mean more to me than one large expensive gift.</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>A. I feel closer to you when you touch me.<br />B. I feel close when we are talking and doing something together.</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>A. I like you to compliment my achievements.<br />B. I know you love me when you do things for me that you don't enjoy doing.</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>A. I like for you to touch me when you walk by.<br />B. I like when you listen to me sympathetically.</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>A. I really enjoy receiving gifts from you.<br />B. I feel loved when you help me with my projects.</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>A. I like when you compliment my appearance.<br />B. I like when you take time to understand my feelings.</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>A. I feel secure when you are touching me.<br />B. Your acts of service make me feel loved.</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>A. I appreciate the many things you do for me.<br />B. I like receiving gifts that you make.</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>A. I love your undivided attention.<br />B. I love the way you serve me.</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>A. Celebrate my birthday with gifts.<br />B. Celebrate my birthday with meaningful words to me.</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>A. I feel loved when you help me with my chores.<br />B. I know you are thinking of me when you give me a gift.</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>A. I appreciate it when you remember special days with a gift.<br />B. I appreciate it when you listen patiently and don't interrupt me.</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>A. I enjoy extended trips with you.<br />B. I like to know that you are concerned enough to help me with my daily task.</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>A. Kissing me unexpectedly makes me feel loved.<br />B. Giving me a gift for no occasion makes me feel loved.</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>A. I like to be told that you appreciate me.<br />B. I like for you to look at me when we are talking.</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>A. Your gifts are always special to me.<br />B. I feel loved when you kiss me.</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>A. I feel loved when you tell me how much you appreciate me.<br />B. I feel loved when you enthusiastically do a task I have requested.</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>A. I need to be hugged by you every day.<br />B. I need your words of affirmation daily.</h2></h3></section>
